Frequently asked questions

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Everything you need to know about membership, matching, safety, and what makes 2to1 different from everything else.

What is the purpose of this platform?

This platform was created to help Christians connect with others who share their faith, values, and commitment to honoring God through intentional courtship. Our goal is alignment, not casual interaction.

Is this a dating site?

No. This is a Christian courtship platform. We are intentional about fostering connections that are rooted in faith, purity, and the pursuit of marriage.

Do all members believe in waiting until marriage?

Yes. Waiting to engage in sexual activity until after marriage is a core value of this community. All members are expected to agree with and respect this standard.

How does matching work?

Matches are based on your profile and responses to questions that reflect your faith journey, beliefs, and values. The goal is to highlight spiritual alignment, not surface-level compatibility.

Is there a free option?

Yes. You can create a profile, complete the questionnaire, and explore the platform before deciding whether to upgrade. Paid plans unlock additional features for those who want to pursue courtship more intentionally.

What should I do if someone violates the community standards?

If a member asks for money, behaves dishonestly, pressures you to compromise your values, or makes you uncomfortable, report them immediately. We take violations seriously to protect the community.

I forgot my password. How do I reset it?

Use the "Forgot password?" link on the sign-in page. You'll receive a reset link at the email address associated with your account. If you don't see it, check your spam folder or contact support.

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